Not so much even that I was single, but that I and what that implied. There are plenty of things I simply do not give a single solitary fuck about when it comes to what women my age are supposed to be doing. Just as there are movies on Netflix you might never stumble across in your bleary-eyed scrolling, there are plenty of people you might never see through some whim of programming code.
Moreover, there's the human factor; it's much easier to reject someone arbitrarily than it is to make an exception.
), in shape, have an interesting job, have interesting hobbies and tons of friends. I had a serious live-in boyfriend for several years in my early twenties, and so, while my single friends were out meeting men in bars and partying, I was picking out paint chips in Home Depot and installing new light fixtures in the house.
There were no real sparks with the guy, but it was a nice introduction back into the world of dating. Man poses as woman on dating site to prove his point. Man assumes women have it easy because they get a ton of attention.It has generally been rote and fruitless, with occasional flurries of excitement, but for someone who makes their living with words, I've had a weirdly difficult time wooing dudes with them.Still, the day after I turned 40, I decided to fire up an old profile and see what happened. Being Single Again I embraced my singleness, and went date-less for almost a year. When that relationship ended (amicably, I might add), I was 26 and my once single friends were spending weekends picking out paint chips instead of going out with me!I hung out with my girlfriends again, planned my 10-year high school reunion, tried my hand at surfing and explored the world in my kayak.After a year, a nice guy at a State Park helped me load my kayak onto my car and asked me out. I have observed, from going to lesbian venues, that a few things matter a lot when I’m trying to date women.. And, maybe you think that lesbians aren’t like straight women on this front, but enough of them are for it to be inconvenient.