Now, as a married woman myself, I can say with some degree of certainty that if my husband and I were to divorce, I wouldn’t want to rush right back into another serious relationship. All circumstance are different, so it’s hard to say if a person should date someone who is in the process of a divorce or not.While most divorces can be sad, nasty and drawn out, others can be quick and painless.What you have to keep in mind is that separated is still married until the divorce is finalised and that means that there’s likely to be emotional as well as legal ties.It would be handy if we could avoid the vulnerability that comes with doing the due diligence and taking appropriate action where needed.
Statements from The King’s College board chair Andy Mills indicate Dinesh’s marriage was in trouble in 2010.
What we forget is that even if a person hasn’t just exited a relationship, aside from knowing our own boundaries (which can rule out certain things that we’ve already made a decision on in advance of), we cannot get all of the answers upfront or have someone tell us what ‘the ending’ will be.
Each situation is different but what you can say with a high degree of certainty is that someone who’s just fallen out of their marriage, who’s still in reconciliation negotiations, who’s still very influenced by their spouse, and who has been separated for a long time ‘just because’, is going to bring pain into your life.
The cynical/realist in me knows that usually these relationships end up in heartbreak, but then again, over 50% of all marriages end in divorce, so some separated men do end up getting divorced.
My guy is having the usual financial issues involved in a divorce..has kids to support and an unemployed wife and he is a very responsible guy and won't leave anyone stranded, but at the same time, the realist in me doesn't see the divorce happenening due to his obligations. Has anyone dated a separated man who did end up filing for and attaining his divorce and now you are happily together? Which is why most folks give separated or newly divorced folks a wide many Luck.