This one of the top complaints I hear from women when it comes to online dating.Taking the time to write a good profile will help you increase your odds of getting a match who is right for you, and having a great first date.After you’ve filled in your basic information, you can add more detail in the “A few words about me” and “More About Me” sections of your profile.Use the latter to describe the things you’re passionate about such as your interests and hobbies and your favourite places to visit.I have a simple, foolproof process for writing profiles that starts with a casual interview, in person or on the phone.Then, I write your profile using your own words and phrases, exactly the way you said them. " Here are some excerpts from among the hundreds of profiles I've written for my clients: "What else can you expect if we were to date?
You’ll be able to pick the words that best describe you, and give others an idea of the things you’re interested in, be it eating out, dancing or volunteering.Writing your own profile, however, can be very difficult.Even the best writers hire professionals to write their bios for them.These photos create the most conversations because they break the ice.Include your most sociable interests in your profile ..your solitary passions. For example, if you love film, mention the cinema, not the fact you recently lost an entire weekend to Netflix.Liking Radiohead, Homeland, Pulp Fiction and The Great Gatsby are effective date words, and mentioning cats is fine, as long as you don't say "my cats".Men who refer to women as "females" or "women" rather than "girls" are more likely to find a mate, as are men who use the word "whom" (31 per cent more online communication).DO Use a photo Profiles with pictures receive 16 times more responses than those without. Women who look directly into the camera for their profile picture receive far more responses than women who look away. We don't know why - could it be women prefer a more brooding, distracted man?The most successful photos are taken in daylight, using an SLR camera (not a smartphone), and show just one person, not a group. Include a photo of you engaged in an interesting activity Like playing an instrument, a sport, or in an unusual location.My clients are blown away by how the end result sounds exactly like them! I will really listen and hear what you have to say.Even better are the compliments they receive: " Yours was the most unique profile I have ever read! If we become friends, you just might have a friend for life. As a native Los Angeleno, I know this city like the back of my hand.