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I simply believe, as I wrote in , that you need to be sure about the motivating influences for choosing celibacy.

When I asked him why, he told me it was because he knew I was abstinent.You’re just going to live for yourself and for God until you meet the person you recognize as your soulmate.Afterall, why date at all if you know they’re not the one for you? Dating before meeting your soulmate will only tempt, distract, and dilute you.I'd thought my chastity was just a minor dating roadblock.But for him, it was nothing less than a deal-breaker.I was recently reminded of that first time my celibacy became an issue for me as an adolescent when I read that Tim Tebow and Miss Universe 2012, Olivia Culpo, had split up, reportedly because of Tebow's vow of abstinence.While sources close to Tebow and Culpo have denied the rumors, saying they never even dated in the first place, the story raises an interesting question: If one person is abstinent and the other person isn't, is abstinence always a deal-breaker? Waiting till "I do": For people in their 20s, like Tebow and Culpo, being abstinent is relatively uncommon, but it's also not rare.These are the things that worked for us, that may be a solid starting point for you, too.I was already celibate when I met my husband and made it clear (with my words and actions) that there’d be no sex in the champagne room very early on!If you’re single and trying to keep the golden door closed, you may often find yourself grappling for insight on how to stay on track with that goal.My husband and I dated for over two years and were proud to have made it to the altar without dipping in each other’s cookie jars!